Signs He’s About to Breakup with You…and What To Do About It.
Here are the signs that he’s about to break up with you and what you need to do about it.
1. Change in his behavior. He was so sweet. He used to compliment you. He noticed all the little details when you got your hair, nails, and toes done, and then suddenly he becomes distant and cold, and you ask him, is everything okay?
He says, “Yeah.”
He’s not paying attention to you. He doesn’t remember anything because he’s not listening to you. Then you ask him again, “What’s going on? What happened?” He responded, “Nothing.”
2. He’s irritated when you are around him. All those quirks that he once thought were so cute annoy him, from how you eat, chew, laugh, and even your appearance.
Pay attention to some of the clues. Some are verbal; some are non-verbal such as rolling his eyes, sucking his teeth like a girl, huffing and puffing, or even, say “Ugh!”
3. The “We” and “Us” switch to “Me” and “I.” I understand you do not always have to be with your man every minute.
Let’s say you only see him on weekends. And usually, it’s a pattern, “Hey, what are we going to do tonight? Let’s go out to dinner, let’s go…” But when you call and say, “Hey, what are we going to do tonight? He responded, “I’d rather stay in and be alone.”
A woman’s intuition is her greatest asset. So if you feel something is not right and off, most likely it is. However, do not rack your brain to figure out what the hell is going on if he does not come out and say anything.
Don’t try to change anything. Don’t try to be a better girlfriend. Don’t try to cook more. Don’t try to nag him to speak to you; that would push him further away.
What should you do?
- Just fall back and create distance from him. Have you ever noticed there are few relationship books for men? Men struggle with expressing their feelings and emotions, especially regarding relationship issues. How he’s behaving may not have anything to do with you, or if so, he may not communicate the reasons to you. So why figure it out if you’re clueless? You will end up on an emotional roller. Create distance, and maybe he will notice you are pulling away.
- Focus on yourself. And I know this isn’t easy, especially if you’ve been in a relationship for months or years. Think about the things you used to do before you had a relationship with him. You may want to start a new business or return to school. Try to get your mind off your partner’s behaviors because you can drive yourself insane. Just move on. Maybe he’ll come back to you and tell you why he was acting that weird.
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