Words have the power to stop us or help us manifest our dreams. Just like emotions fuels our thoughts…so does our words. Why…because words are the magnetic affirmation that draws everything to us, it’s a mirror of our thoughts. Subtle words whether spoken out loud or in your mind can block the Law of Attraction. Most people are unaware they are placing their attention on the things they don’t want instead of the things they desire. And when we focus on what we don’t want…we manifest more of it.

I think it’s more challenging to monitor our thoughts (since we have over 60,000 thoughts a day). However; it’s much easier to monitor what we say.What we speak reinforces and amplifies our thoughts.

DON’T

I don’t – it’s a choice and there’s no room for debate (it affirms our willpower, control, and empowerment).

“I don’t want more debt”
“I don’t want to be sick”
“I don’t want to be robbed”

Therefore when we say or think of “DON’T” you’re feeling a lack of willpower and control but you’re inviting more debt, sicker and invasion into our lives.

Perfect example: In the car with my son….and while he’s getting out of the car…I said, “Don’t slam my car door.” What do you know…he slams my car door.

Replace “I DON’T” with “I AM”
“I AM financially free”
“I AM healthy”
“I AM secure and safe”

I CAN’T

Don’t, Can’t, – I know these two words can somewhat interchangeable but they are very different.

I can’t – it’s a restriction (it affirms something is being imposed upon you.)

“I can’t afford that house”
“I can’t get that high paying job”
“I can’t think positive during this challenging moment.”

Therefore, when you say or think of CAN’T you’re feeling some form of limitation rather than possibilities. You’re resisting the possibilities of you affording that house, your limited belief system thinks you can’t get that job, you’re restricting yourself from feeling positive.

Replace “I CAN’T” with “I CAN”

“I CAN afford that house”
“I CAN get that high paying job”
“I CAN think positive during this challenging moment”

Think about it: Why do you think the 2008 Barack Obama presidential campaign “YES! WE CAN” was so empowering? Because it affirmed belief.

BUT

Using the word in that manner; (affirms objections and opposition)

“I want to travel the world but I have children”
“I want to buy that car but I don’t have the money”
“I want to go back to schools but it’s a conflict with my work schedule”

Therefore, when you use the word BUT, you’re causing resistance because you’re stating the opposite in one sentence. Not allowing yourself to see it what you want to desire.

A negative or pessimistic mindset is disempowering.

It’s time to take your power back!

Just as a recap:

I CAN’T affirms lack, I DON’T affirms limitation, BUT affirms resistance.

Thanks for watching! Until the next energy healing podcast……..Namaste!